In this installment of The Verywell Mind Podcast, Amy Morin, LCSW, engages in a heartfelt conversation with actor Nathan Kress, best known for his portrayal of Freddie Benson in the beloved Nickelodeon sitcom iCarly. Nathan openly shares his experiences, trials, and coping mechanisms as a caregiver, offering valuable insights into balancing personal life, professional aspirations, and the demands of caring for loved ones.
Embracing Vulnerability: Nathan emphasizes the strength in vulnerability, challenging conventional masculine norms. He encourages caregivers to embrace their weaknesses and openly discuss their struggles, seeking support and connection.
Authenticity in Social Media: Nathan stresses the importance of authenticity in social media, advocating for sharing the realities of life's challenges without the need for filters. He believes this transparency provides a refreshing contrast to the often-curated online world.
Power of Support Systems: Nathan underscores the transformative impact of support systems in cultivating resilience and mental fortitude. He emphasizes the significance of reaching out to others who genuinely understand the unique challenges of caregiving.
Prioritizing Self-Care: Recognizing the necessity of self-care, Nathan shares his strategies for prioritizing his own well-being. He demonstrates that self-care is not selfish but an essential element for long-term sustainability as a caregiver.
"I didn't realize that maybe I wasn't doing so good or that there were just things that I wasn't processing. And that me—as a hulking macho man—was taught to compartmentalize and compress [and] put these things away because they're not 'manly' enough."
"The world is so fake online. Injecting a little bit of reality into it, even if it's a little bit too much reality, at the very least it's refreshing."
"I don't know if it's just an American thing or a Western thing or a guy thing, but it also feels like when someone says, ‘how are you?’ you're not allowed to say anything other than, ‘Oh, I'm good. How are you?’"