The Single Question to Ask Yourself Daily for Mental Growth

Friday Fix: Episode 194

Many listeners and readers ask me how to gauge their mental growth. It's a valid question, given that mental strength is less tangible than physical strength and varies from person to person.

Some may find strength in increased relaxation, while others may find it in pushing limits. Our actions don't always reflect our inner struggles, so remember that actions are just part of the journey. Mental strength encompasses our thoughts and feelings too.

To measure your mental growth, ask yourself this daily: "Am I aligning my actions with my values?"

Values are the principles guiding your life and decision-making. Acting in accordance with them means living authentically, congruent with your identity. When you do this, you're more likely to:

• Make choices aligned with long-term goals
• Find purpose and meaning in life
• Be resilient in challenging times
• Foster healthy relationships
• Experience overall well-being

Reflect on your thoughts and actions throughout the day. Were there instances where you compromised your values? Did you make regrettable decisions? Or did you stand up for your beliefs, even when challenging?

If aligning your actions with your values proves difficult, consider these tips:

• Identify your values. What's truly important to you? What kind of person do you aspire to be?
• Document your values. Write them down to keep them front and center in your mind.
• Plan. How can you start living your values more consistently?
• Be patient. Behavior change takes time. Don't be discouraged by a lack of immediate results. Keep practicing, and progress will follow.

Asking yourself this question daily is a potent tool for gauging mental strength and identifying areas for growth. By aligning your actions with your values, you'll grow stronger mentally and emotionally.

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