Hinge's Director of Relationship Science Says, Put Your Phone Away. Seriously.

Logan Ury, Director of Relationship Science at Hinge, shares her insights on how our obsession with smartphones is affecting our dating lives.

The Problem

• 33% of Gen Z daters are feeling distracted on dates because they can't stop looking at their phones.
• 75% admit that being on their phone prevents good conversation and makes them more hesitant to open up on a date.
• Even having your phone out, even if it's face down, can be distracting.

The Solution

• Put your phone away. This is the most important step, and it can be done in a variety of ways.
• Find a romantic setting. This could be a quiet coffee shop, a park, or even your own living room.
• Find a distraction-free activity. This could be anything from taking a walk to cooking a meal together.
• Be present. Pay attention to your date and make an effort to connect with them.

The Benefits

• You'll have more meaningful conversations.
• You'll be more likely to connect with your date.
• You'll be more likely to have a second date.

Additional Tips

• Don't talk to too many people at once on a dating app.
• Give your dates some breathing room.
• Move from chatting to the date as soon as possible.
• Three days of chatting is the sweet spot before moving to a phone call or in-person date.

Conclusion

Dating in the age of smartphones can be tough, but it's not impossible. By following these tips, you can increase your chances of having a successful and enjoyable dating life.