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7 Conversation Topics to Avoid on a First Date:

  1. Off-the-Cuff Critical Comments:

    • Keep the conversation positive and avoid making off-the-cuff or judgmental comments about your date's appearance, job, or lifestyle choices.
  2. Excessive Adulation:

    • Appreciate your date's uniqueness and offer genuine compliments, but avoid overwhelming them with excessive adoration or "love bombing."
  3. Exploring Past Relationships:

    • Focus on the present and future. Avoid discussing past relationships or engaging in blaming or criticizing others.
  4. Delving into Personal Traumas:

    • Sharing traumatic or painful experiences too soon can be overwhelming and disrupt the date's flow.
  5. Making It All About You:

    • Create a balanced conversation. Ask questions and encourage your date to share their thoughts and experiences.
  6. Self-Deprecating Humor Run Amok:

    • A little self-deprecating humor is fine, but avoid dwelling on your shortcomings or insecurities. Keep the tone positive.
  7. Discussing Sexual History:

    • Discussing your sexual history or asking about your date's is inappropriate and uncomfortable for a first date.
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