Take Accountability and Ownership:
- Recognize your actions and behavior's impact on your relationship.
- Be open to examining and improving your role in conflicts.
Respond to Bids for Connection:
- Be attentive when your partner attempts to connect emotionally or physically.
- Express understanding, empathy, and interest in their thoughts and feelings.
Prioritize Fun and Playfulness:
- Engage in activities that bring joy and laughter to your relationship.
- Create positive memories and strengthen your bond through shared experiences.
Let Go of Unrealistic Expectations:
- Accept that perfection is unattainable and find common ground.
- Avoid unrealistic expectations that lead to disappointment and frustration.
Maintain Positive Illusions:
- Focus on your partner's positive qualities, even during challenges.
- Reinforce a sense of admiration and appreciation for their strengths.